SRI BHAGAVAN: "You should share about your inmost fears, your desires, your worries and the group must be like a safe system. You should not be talking about it outside or be criticizing the person. You must learn to look into a person and offer him your friendship and your support. When you practice this kind of listening, the person who is talking will make rapid progress and the person who is listening will also make rapid progress. So, eventually you must speak and you must learn the art of listening. As that person is speaking, what is happening inside of you that you must watch. You must attend to him without judging him or appreciating him, just listening. So the art of listening is very, very crucial. That has to be practised and it must finally culminate in the sharing of a Deeksha."