SRI BHAGAVAN: "You must first feel that pain. That’s the 1st qualification. If you don’t feel the pain and say “OK! I’m managing my suffering and I’m happy with it” then I have no business with you. I can help you only if it is going to really trouble you.
The second thing is, your relationships. That’s very important. Then you are ready for receiving my grace of Mukthi. Only then you’ll know what true love is, what compassion is, what it is to share your life with others, what all this talk of oneness is. All the scriptures will start revealing themselves to you. Nobody needs to teach you. You are your own guru you can see it for yourself."