SRI BHAGAVAN: "No two persons could agree all the time. You are a resultant experience of several factors like the process of your birth, childhood, weather, the food that you consume and it is the same with your partner.
Each of you are unique in your approaches. Hence, expecting your spouse to have the same view is not intelligence. As you awaken to this truth, you begin to experience your spouse which gives rise to joy.
For example as your wife is angry with you, if you could really connect with her and experience her anger like how you enjoy your morning walk or a cup of coffee, then that would be the most fulfilling moment in your marital life.
This exercise would certainly put the other person at ease since you’re not trying to complain or reject. This is the ultimate solution for a healthy marital life."