First of all the divine you must cast the divine in a human mold, like father, mother, brother, sister, friend or whatever you like.It is very important that you cast the divine in the best relationship you have.Suppose your relationship is very good with your mother, then the best thing is to cast the relationship in your mother’s mold. Suppose the relationship is very good with your husband. Better to cast the divine in the husband’s mold. Suppose the relationship is very good with your friend then you would cast the divine in a friend’s mold.
And then start relating to the divine as you would start relate to them. You must start with conversations you could ask your questions, you could ask for help.